提两个问题: 人是为什么而活？你是为什么而活？

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有的人为了梦想而活，追求梦想 follow your heart ，总是看起来美好，实际上确实很困难的一条路。有时候在大人眼里却是 too young too simple 。家境较好的人家的孩子可能更容易选择梦想，正如那句话"相比于你们这些少爷，我们这些人光是活着就很困难"。

有的人为了下一代或者说为了家庭而活，可能连对象都没有，更不用谈小孩了，就在计划着未来的小孩的事，户口啊，学区房啊，等等。

有的人为了自己而活，这类人我不知道该怎么描述，看起来像第一类人但也不完全是，我觉得这种更偏向于形容自私的人？我也说不准，如有不同意见还请指出。

我以前一直觉得我应该为了梦想活着，可是慢慢的我发现其实我是为了自己而活，爸妈是典型的为了下一代而活着的人，所以这时候我说为了梦想其实还就是自私，时间终究会把我变成一个为下一代活着的人。

所以你们觉得人是为什么而活？你又是为了什么在活着？

为了

梦想

活

下一代

118 条回复 • 2022-09-01 15:55:48 +08:00

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ibolee

2017-02-05 09:34:35 +08:00 via iPhone

西北有句民间谚语，有点脏话的意思，但有点道理。为了文明，部分翻译成英文。

人在世上走，就是为了 eat ， wear ， fuck 。

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babytomas

2017-02-05 09:37:36 +08:00

@heyli 很多人想这个事儿。。。

想开了、放开了，所以自杀了。
想不开、放不下，所以自杀了。

。。。。

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yehon

2017-02-05 09:43:30 +08:00 via iPhone

我为自己活着。

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iceland

2017-02-05 10:22:58 +08:00

''' We succeeded in taking that picture, and, if you look at it, you see a dot. That's here. That's home. That's us. On it, everyone you ever heard of, every human being who ever lived, lived out their lives. The aggregate of all our joys and sufferings, thousands of confident religions, ideologies and economic doctrines, every hunter and forager, every hero and coward, every creator and destroyer of civilizations, every king and peasant, every young couple in love, every hopeful child, every mother and father, every inventor and explorer, every teacher of morals, every corrupt politician, every superstar, every supreme leader, every saint and sinner in the history of our species, lived there – on a mote of dust, suspended in a sunbeam.

The Earth is a very small stage in a vast cosmic arena. Think of the rivers of blood spilled by all those generals and emperors so that in glory and in triumph they could become the momentary masters of a fraction of a dot. Think of the endless cruelties visited by the inhabitants of one corner of the dot on scarcely distinguishable inhabitants of some other corner of the dot. How frequent their misunderstandings, how eager they are to kill one another, how fervent their hatreds. Our posturings, our imagined self-importance, the delusion that we have some privileged position in the universe, are challenged by this point of pale light.

To my mind, there is perhaps no better demonstration of the folly of human conceits than this distant image of our tiny world. To me, it underscores our responsibility to deal more kindly and compassionately with one another and to preserve and cherish that pale blue dot, the only home we've ever known. '''

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pale_Blue_Dot
https://zh.wikipedia.org/wiki/%E6%9A%97%E6%B7%A1%E8%97%8D%E9%BB%9E